Ok,

As far as Brightside goes....it sounds like 3 coats is the way to go. Is this the process?
Step #1
Coat #1 from the can then wetsand(what grit?)
Step #2
Coat #2 from the can then wetsand(what grit?)
Step #3
Coat #3 Thinned 5-10% with #333 then wetsand? (what grit?)
Step #4 Polish (turtle wax polishing compound?)
Step #5 Wax

My questions would be-

How long between painting and wetsanding?
How long between wetsanding and painting?
How long between wetsanding and polishing?
How long between polishing and waxing?

This will be my son's first car and I want to get it right. If I'm off track at all, please chime in. Thanks for all the help.