First off I am not a Gen 3 hemi expert, but I do closely monitor their development.
I personally would find a 6.1 hemi heads or a set of Eagle heads. The eagle heads are cheap to buy, and flow very well.
I would run a 5.7 based stroker, with new eagle heads or 6.1 heads. I would use an 04-08 short block to get rid of variable cam timing etc.
The drag pack intake is about 750$ cost to about $1000 retail I believe.
DO NOT upgrade the valve train. My opinion from watching the NHRA stockers, they will live to 8000 RPM. I hear the tie bars for the stands are worth the investment.
The stroker kit is about $2200-$3300.
Dont forget the MSD box to run the coils.
I am watching this as you go. Good luck.
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