I never met Gary but I felt that I knew him through the posts and all the people that responded to him. I`m kind of at a loss for words. I have been reading all the posts in the last few days and many of them are saying what I feel. It was tragedy and it has been hard on the family. The hardest part is yet to come. Once the attention calms down and everybody settles back into their own life, Nicole will be left with an empty space. This is the time that the support needs to carry on and let her know that we will not forget.