I'm not addressing the will aspect, its self explanatory and above my pay grade.

I do want to repeat, a lot stuff is dealt with before a will is in play, and it's an extremely stressed time for everyone involved as that time approaches..

A durable power of attorney fills the gap, and makes life easier for everyone, until the will comes into play.

If you become incapacitated, a power of attorney is no longer an option.

They are revocable, they are immediate, they are not cumbersome, and they are not costly, but you need a lawyer to set one up with his advice for your situation.

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