I finally got the guts up enough ot read this thread as i knew it would not be anything good.

As a father of 3 children i can only say that putting you on the spot of how to treat this horrible situation must be devestating to you.

Whatever you choose to do I know we all pray it turns out for the best. Talk to your family and do what you feel is best and let God's hand lead the way.

Good luck, and whatever route you choose it will be the right one so never look back and second guess your decesion just move forward and hope for the best.