I'll look into that.
I was hoping for a Dakota ECM pin out, and the diagrams for the wire pin out at the trans connection. Good thought on a different FSM, that may be helpful.

I think I still have a 97 full sized Ram FSM on cd here (if I can find it eek ) That should at least show me the pin out at the trans connection for a RE46. The ECM on the full Ram is different then the ECM on a Dakota, and then this Dakota is a 96, so that could be a problem as well sourcing out the wire pin out of it.