Rmchgr, you are getting confusing. You have stated a couple times you DON'T WANT a truck but you seem to be talking yourself into one.

Which is it?

If you want a truck that's manerouvable as a car and gets 30 mpg, forget it, especially if you want to tow.

And I'm going to call BS on your claim that the Eco Boost gets 18 towing. They're luckily to get 18 unloaded.

Frankly I don't see Anny one vehicle meeting your goals.