I came to realize that when I was going through a tough time they were taking advantage of it by demeaning me in order to feel better about themselves.
I came to this realization with my ex when things went sideways with my Mom's health.
While it didn't happen immediately after the divorce, I have cut off any and all connection with her or her family.
I could say more, but DocFiberglass is gonna have something idiotic to say as usual because I posted.