Since you went from 50/50 coolant mix to nearly straight water with chemical wetter,
that has an effect like having a 30% gpm pump boost,
due to the greater thermal capacity of straight water.
To me that indicates the system is “airflow limited” not liquid & pump side limited.
I would now boost airflow somehow to further test.
Start by blowing more air on the parked stationary vehicle with a large electric floor fan or leaf blower.
If this added boost of airflow lowers the liquid temperature down to the 180 degree setting of the thermostat,
then try a larger diameter fan, or a same diameter fan with more blades and/or pitch.
My thoughts as well.
The thing is it runs about same place on the gauge driving down the road at 55 mph
I cant get the idea out of my head that the fan blade is to small for the shroud opening. and/or not enough blade pitch The cars Ive had in the past you could really feel suction in front of the radiator at idle . This one IMO doesnt pull like I think it should/could. And it doesnt really help much when i bring it up off idle
Also, base timing was almost 18-19 degrees , I bumped that down to about 15 to see if it had any effect , So far nuttin