Glad you guys are OK - well hopefully. You may all have whiplash & don't realize it yet. If so, it will probably plague you for the rest of your lives - like me. I was the second vehicle in a wreck in Chicago back in 1979 & started having headaches 2 days after the accident, & I still get my "car accident" headaches to this day.

As far as the Charger, that's going to be a very difficult one to fix - the roof is tweaked - you can see looking at the driver's door window alignment. A-pillars were probably both pushed forward & came back - the entire roof was pushed forward. If it is savable, it's going to be a LOT of work.