Hey I agree that no amount is worth my life or my kids life - so I asked here for opinions. I fugured since lots of people use impacts not torque wrenches to install these - 70-80 lbs I aint the first to do..

If it wasn't for the nut/hole/cotter issue not sure I would have given it another thought.

I will order another joint - I will remove the nut maybe even the joint to check the taper on the arm and use this as a learning moment - I hope i did not FUBAR it..

Thanks
Plaz