I guess my Wife didn't think I'd pursue one as when I told her tonight, she got upset.
That's a good thing...
You got her attention...
Now, proceed...
And keep it under yer hat...
Go in it, to win it...
Yup, go to WIN!!! No holds barred. Go for the throat! Be MEAN about EVERYTHING!!! If she crys, GOOD, means you are getting to her, use the crying to YOUR advantage, such as, "Why didn't you cry when so and so happened?" and "You never liked my mother anyway". Be sure the court/judge knows and hears EVERYTHING!