As of 9:30 AM June 19th, 2018, I am officially 240 lbs lighter.

While I consulted a lawyer, I didn't have one represent me at the hearing.

As per the decree I do not have a set time I have to vacate the property, so we're still under the same roof for the time being.

When we got back from the hearing, she cried some. No not about me, the reality of just how many more bills she's going to be taking on set in. She has to find a room mate or file bankruptcy.

My name is off all joint bills, so I'm not worried about it.

The bank did a hardship refinance on her car to get me off of it. They had to run the loan out almost 5 yrs to get the payment down, so she will being paying 9 yrs (total) for her 2014 Kia.

Finances are gonna be tight for me simply because I don't earn a lot, but, as of right now, aside from a student loan I'll always have, I have nothing but daily/monthly expenses.

Thanks everyone.