Holeeeee CRAP!
It sure sounds like you have some bad JuJu...everywhere you turn, you find trouble.
Have you ever seen "The Adjustment Bureau"?
Interesting movie. Matt Damon is a guy that stumbles onto a strange "dimension" where hidden agents in the city create events to steer people into a predetermined destiny. If they veer off course, the agents create obstacles to get them back on course.
That is just Hollywood fantasy BUT sometimes it sure seems like someone is putting up roadblocks to intentionally slow me down or to get me to take a different path.