I left ebay as a seller such a long time ago I lost count of the years. (At least 15 maybe?) Not because of buyers being dirtbags, but because of ebay screwing up several of my auctions & trying to get me to pay to relist after they admitted that it was their fault.

As much as people complain about buyers, most are okay people. Having sold many things over the years, when I buy I try to treat sellers decently. One time about 6 months ago I purchased multiple items from someone. One of the items was damaged & had to be returned, but since the invoice was set up as one item/payment, the site refunded me for all the items screwing the seller. When I sent the returned item I included a check to cover the rest of the things that I kept.