If you've decided you don't want a Wrangler, get a cherokee, not a grand. Doesn't really matter the year. The 4.0 is a rock solid engine and they can be had with a 5 speed stick if you search for them. Much more capable off roaders than the grand and they can still tow a reasonable trailer. Aftermarket support for the cherokee is pretty good and they still look good with a bit of a lift and some decent tires. The grand cherokee always looks like a minivan wannabe no matter what you do to it.