".... the hemi is a tad heavier than anticipated....."
Well there's your problem
You could always put it on a diet
http://hothemiheads.com/cylinder_heads/aluminum_heads_street.html Yeah there's about 3.500 reasons there are not a pair of those on mine too.
Thanks for the pictures....are you running a build thread anywhere? I would love to see some more detail. What engine and transmission are you going to be running? The trim looks like it's a Savoy?
On my 57 Plaza I went about as far as I could with the stock suspension (which really wasn't that much) NOSR Chrysler Windsor torsion bars, Imperial sway bar and AAJ disc brakes. Pretty much handles like a nose heavy 57 Plymouth
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