Friends who lost their boy march 2nd had a friend who took still shots of Maddox that the parents took in his short life. They then put them on a slide show with music. They played that at the funeral before hand. Very touching. It's now on YouTube under Maddox April 11 - march 13 if you need ideas.
Just trying to get you ideas that other parents did when faced with same situation. It's 10 to 1 and all I can think about is Owen and wishing there was something I found do to help.