Ok....
I did a trial fit of all the pieces and the front cross member will sit right under the frame connector. I will have to cut a piece of 1/8in steel with a 1 3/4 hole in it, and weld that piece to the connector with the X member trough the drilled hole

I have 32 in bars

I will post pics of the fit tomorrow, may be someone will come up with a better idea
Dan