Next step is to sit down with the wife and read her the riot act ... don't EVER pull that sh!t again !!!
Oh, you can COUNT on it!
I'll disagree, as she was trying to be kind and helpful. BUT I do think a normal conversation regarding the potential issues being kind and heelpful to that degree can cause. I would also ASK that she converse with you first on a major decision (like this one), and that you both agree before an action takes place. Again she was only trying to help
