I have been keeping tabs on this thread since yesterday trying to find the words to give you and your family some comfort. I have started posts and, just as quickly, erased them in futile attempts to say the "right" thing.
Ultimately, it has been brought home to me that nothing I can say now...or that I can ever say...will be the right thing.
I am so sorry. I hope that time and community help to someday lessen the pain that you and your family must be feeling.
Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
Craig