Slowly, I am starting to get it. Sorry for being so thick.

Ron, my problem is I am not using the MOPAR starter relay. I am using the Ford relay. The Ford relay as one terminal for the battery connection and one to the starter solenoid just like the MOPAR. There are two more terminals, one is "coil" where the wire from ignition goes and the other is "ignition". I am guessing the wire should run from the "ignition" post on the relay to the center post on the neutral start switch. Nothing to the solenoid.