I'm a C-body kinda guy.....

This was something that played into the divorce. No, I never told her she HAD to lose weight 'or else' or anything remotely close to that.....her Doctor did that about 5 yrs ago.

She had the surgery, did GREAT for almost two years, then started spiraling out of control again. First it was eating crap again, then it was starting smoking again (which she claimed she hadn't smoked since H.S.). As of this writing, she's almost a chain smoker.

I have asthma. See the problem here?

So, she's put back on a majority of the weight, and she smokes on top of it too now. I'm more than willing to lend a help hand, a word of encouragement, but, it's gotta be up to YOU to actually do something.

Plus, I'm not 100% sure, but it looks like she's starting to drink too.

I'm not saying all this to imply I'm perfect, I'm not, I know it. I'm not in denial about it. But, when one person is constantly trying to better themselves, no matter how small, and the other has basically given up.....you have to draw the line somewhere.