I'm reasonably sure you still have feelings for her and her well being. And you should, you did spend a good portion of your lives together.

BUT,! Now it's over. Don't feel sorry for her, she got what she wanted. Sorry she now has to make a car payment and rent or house payment. But that's what she wanted.

Do Not feel sorry, don't help her. Sounds like she already has a roommate lined up to help pay the bills. If not maybe she should have stayed with the sure thing.

She made her bed, doesn't mean you have to lay in ur