Me too. I suffer from ADD (all day drama) & IDGAF (I dont give a fxxx). Slip the thin one on the bolt & lodge it under the bolt head. Then insert the bolt (with the thin washer on it) into the adapter. Then on the other side add the thick cork washer to the threaded end of the bolt that protrudes from the concave face on the inside. Make sure the block circular recess is cleaned of all gasket material. Torque on the big bolt is 50 lbs (cleaned/lightly oiled threads) EDIT The thin one goes next to the bolt head (outside). The other thin one (thick cork) goes on the bolt on the (inside) AFTER you insert the bolt/thin washer into the adapter. Then the large circular gasket as you know goes in the block circular recess.