Why are you wasting your time getting multiple estimates? You don't have to do that. No state requires you to do that. Pick the shop you want to fix it, and that's it. Or, if you're going to fix it yourself (which you are 100% allowed to do), get an estimate from the shop that you'd have fix it if you weren't going to fix it yourself. Don't waste your time running around. Don't waste the time of multiple shops who aren't going to be fixing your car.