The relay looks to be wired correctly.
What I also noticed on mine is that the new M&H wiring harness to the headlight motor is wired backwards. I had to cut the terminal, that plugs into the motor, and reverse the wires.

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4-speed
3:54 Dana
13.01 @107.93 with street tires (not hooking up)