2003 chrysler town & country.installed an I C dynamics brand remote start unit.System works,But when started & running, ALL lights are on including headlights.I would prefere to have running lights only.Instruction manual as well as customer service tech line says to use a 5.6k ohm resistor for that.But when I do that, NO lights come on.This light system is a mux sytem (multiplex).The 1 wire Light feed from the remote start unit goes to the bcm.Normaly you use a fused lead to the light curuit.This is different,I tried installing the resistor in place of the fuse and got nothing.What am I missing,or do wrong.?