starter relay gets two sources to make it work. Just when both are set, it will work.
you need 12 + volts from ign key at IGN terminal ( yellow wire ) and 12 volts - ( ground ) on Ground terminal ( brown traced yellow wire ) coming from NSS central pin JUST in P or N
how to test... well, checking wiring frist, if you have 12 + volts at yellow wire when cranking and check for continuity with chassis ground at brown traced wire coming from NSS
then check starter relay... You can jump both... ground the G terminal with Chassis, and jumps the IGN terminal with relay stud if you want.
when jumping, be sure you are in P or N because if in gear, car will move.