.... have had some discussions- locally and out of state - kind of a horror show with some.

Whatchoogot ?

What the [censored] is wrong with you?

With that FUGGIN tude ... you are obviously single ...

I’ll bet you would reject YOU on the first intro

Over 100 views and nothing past that loser lefty coaster ?

Let me clarify .... I’ve just been talking to buds up in Michigan, Massachusetts and here in Florida..., just comparing notes and experiences.

THE LAST experience I had was over a year ago ..... that ended because she was a mean alcoholic... that did show HUGE PROMISE until she showed her true colors as far as alcohol abuse.

I find it HUGELY INTERESTING listening to other experiences...,,

I'm sure that's what they said too.........

The question for YOU TWO ... what is wrong WITH YOU.

You SaddySack7 ... you have repeatedly said you’re blocking me .... yet you can’t stay away. You don’t care for my topic or post ? ... CHANGE THE CHANNEL.., dummy!

That PacPutz ? ... he gives negativity new meaning. Hes a nothing nobody anyways

A wonderful wife.

Good fur u GEEtar !

I’ve done pretty well in life but I was never designed as a single guy.

Remember the end of the movies ... Entrapment and Pretty Woman ?

I’m kind of a sap that way

It's like a bad car wreck, I can't stop looking..............



HEY! I know somebody that's available and has garage space! Shall I hook you up?

I'm guessing you didn't see the alcoholic beforehand because she didn't start drinking until after she met you.

Can’t speak for now but I can talk about single life in the 90s. It probably hasn’t changed much sine then. I was 46 when I lost my first wife of 27 years to cancer in 91. There was plenty of good looking horny women out there looking for a nice guy with money and a steady job to take care of them. The problem was 95 % of them had issues and excess baggage. Good for a good time but not worth getting into a long time relationship. Went through a whole lot of them had some wild times before I jumped in to a long term relationship with the current wife. All in all I had a great time being single. Can’t see why it would be any different today.

I've not been in a committed relationship for 17 years now. Kind fascinating since I'm 40. Back in my early 20's, I did everything I could to try and land a steady side piece but learned that I'm neither rich enough nor good looking enough to get away with my attitude. I consider a woman to be my equal. There should be no dominant or submissive in the relationship. I think today they'd refer to it as being a "Simp"; which I will have no part in. I have a few acquaintances who've gone in for that lifestyle and it turns my stomach. I'm sorry, but a grown man should not need to ask wifey's permission if he can go play with his friends. While I have had some very attractive ladies attached to me, it always ends for one reason or another: usually, I tire of their games or they just glom on to somebody with more money.

I'd rather be single and happy with myself than in some kind of relationship and miserable.

I still look back and laugh. One of my longest relationships had the gall to say "If you sold some of the cars and stopped fooling with them, we could get a house." My response was: "If I got rid of you, I could still get the house and have more time & money for the cars."

And, I was right.

I am single I just have the one wife.

m💤 ..... a little snarky response but I can PITCH and CATCH

She made it clear from the start that she had an excessive drinking problem but wanted to lose that monkey on her back - along with a difficult life up in Indiana- and wanted a more calm life that she hadn’t had there. She never said she wanted to quit drinking but said she wanted to way cut down. Yadi yadi yada ...... purposely done - I bought a 20 pack of corona beer ... she said she would make it last for a week plus ..... it lasted less than 2 days.

Saddy7 ...... the TRAIN WRECK will get beaucoo worserEST with you here !

A chick with a garage ? Sounds good ! Which one of your Xs is that ? But the thought of dating a chick that YOU have soiled their loins ...,would be a nItEmArE !

daBeeez ..... I was single in the 90s .... very interesting ! Diff now ? ... I haven’t really tried in the last year or so because of the stories from others. Freeloaders... drunks.... huge baggage ...

Ever try personal sites ? ... from reports - lots of scam sites that are just money grabs.

aMsea ..... SIMP ? ... I had to look that up ... excessive flattery or sympathy?

Dom or sub ? ... I think one should WEAR THE PANTS if someone clearly knows more about whatever. This last chick had a HELLEVA better idea on a diet(veggies) and organization skills.

But many of these chicks have almost ZERO financial skills.

I am very happy ... but something is missing. I like RV travel ... but not alone.

Does she know about your ThermoQuad obsession ?

Just one wife ? Ever investigated getting another ... for you ..and her ?

Think THROUPLE !

pinkChickadee ... explained before !

Ok, ok, being serious here.......


I am very happy ... but something is missing. I like RV travel ... but not alone.


I don't know how long you've been by yourself, but are you prepared to make the transition from being 'free' and doing what you want, to having someone in your face 24/7 while cooped up in a box?

I'm reminded of a boss I had a long time ago. He had always dreamt of traveling the country in an RV with his wife. They retired and made the dream a reality BUT about a month in, they realized the reason they had been married so long in the first place was because of how much they DIDN'T see each other. He said if they hadn't sold the RV when they did, someone would've ended up dead.

Test drive 'em, Doc...maybe even shack up for awhile to see what they're really made of. You'll get a good understanding of who they are and what their idea of your mutual relationship is.

Good luck and have fun!

I ain't seen my wife in two or three years.....

A 20 pack huh? Not an 18 or 24? Yeah right. You went out on a date and she realized she was hangin with a turd and flushed you.

PacPutz ... the only turd here getting flushed is you .... you talk outa yur azz more than anyone on this site.

We went to the GROCERY STORE to buy staples for home.

And when I discovered she was a dedicated lush ... she didn’t want to leave .., I called 911 and the cops escorted her out.

And PacPutz .......I’m done with you ... I would pizz on you if you were on fire.

Doc……the point is there IS no 20 pack….your post reeks of bull. And your date ends with a 911 call??? EPIC!!! LOL!

Thx for being serious about this .... I’ll have to do it later ... my phone is acting up now - same problem you’ve had

Last time putz .... it was an 18 or 20 ... I don’t remember and don’t care. I’ve never bought a PACK OF BEER ever before.

All I drink is hard stuff... when I drink and that’s not often.

Satty7 .... how EZ this works in the NOTES SECTION ... smooth as silk.. I really HEAR YOU .... can you deal with a significant other truly FULL TIME ? My ex wife and I did with the fiberglass biz and travel ... everything! WE had much input from many different people on HOW DO YOU DO IT ? My parents and sis commented by basically saying what you said !

What makes it work is something maybe like .. I’m a gentle Dom and they have to be a bit more of a passive sub. No .. not a doormat. I had one of those short term... didn’t like it.

Quite honestly... I started this topic to hear what others are dealing with. I have absolutely NOTHING going on in my single life. I’ve had discussions with buds about personal ads .... I did that long before - they certainly have changed .. and NOT for the bester!

With almost 1000 views .., it’s gotta have some curious people with interest in the thread.

Doc has a 24 pac face and a 48 pac personality. Lol 😂
After that they think he’s funny

FM ... I missed you but didn’t furget !

I did lots of chitchat first then she was LIVING HERE for 4 days .... quite simply ... she really didn’t appreciate what was offered to her ...,and valued her beer more than being sober.

LOTS of people like that ... so I’ve been told

And cHeEzYburgherGuy likes to squeeze Mikey’s “pillows” !

I'm the type that needs my alone time once in awhile. Been divorced coming up four years, have made no attempt to throw myself back out there. I'm fine with Rosie for now, but even she has her bad days.........

That’s almost DIRECTLY how I feel .... chicks are a basic PITA ... my motor homey is in the shop ... looking to do some serious upgrades .....and TO HEAR from guys who wish they were out of marriages ... getting back into the SCENE is not very encouraging.

Then hearing about the BS scene with personal ads .... I just might invest in a 55 gallon drum of lotion for Rosie and Susie !

Simps are worse than that. They devote their entire existence to making sure wifey is happy. They will happily castrate themselves and place their balls in wifey's purse without a single complaint. They will cook, clean, do all the housework all the while wifey sits there stuffing her fat gob with bon-bons all so that once a month, she might let him get plugged in. If he's been a good boy and has 5 gold stars.

I mean, don't get me wrong - I'd become a house husband too, but it better mean that she's a doctor/lawyer/empress of another planetary system and an identical twin to Kate Upton! But even then, I'd still want some semblance of my own life outside the house.

But if we're both on the same playing field, (both solid 5's out of 10), both making roughly the same wage and just trying to find our little niche in life; then it's 50/50 all the way. I'm apparently "too picky" because I don't smoke, drink or take drugs and I'm also not willing to date women with children, either. That right there eliminates (in my area anyway) 90% of the good clunge. They also can't outweigh me. Now, I'm a good n' plenty 300.... so.... I'm painting that one with a wide brush and STILL coming up snake eyes.

I find most "women" of my generation have no skills at anything. They don't cook, they don't clean, they most certainly should not be raising children, they have no hobbies, they don't read, they have NO culture or manners and between you, me & the bedstain; the last couple I fooled around with simply for sexual satisfaction - had no idea how to please a man orally. And these women were in their 30's for fox lakes....

I do want to move. There's no doubt about it. I'd like to go somewhere where the gene pool actually has depth.
And it sure would be nice if my gay female cousin also wasn't corrupting all the good ankle. She and I seem to have the same taste in women. Tall, slim, busty & British.

AMC, I read your response as I was ready to leave for work and thought about it a couple times today.
It IS sickening to see men turn into total wimps and surrender their balls to the woman. I've seen it numerous times. I've had stuff for sale and get the "Geez, let me run this by the wife and I'll let you know".
That always means there will be no sale to that person....either they use that as an excuse OR they really are a limp wrist loser with no balls.
I have ZERO respect for those pussies.
I have no respect for women that LET their man insult them, hurt them or just don't show them love and respect.
I have been married twice and neither wife has tried to control me. I never try to control them either. The relationship should be one with a shared responsibility and mutual respect, not one where one is the boss and the other is the victim.

My time in between wives was a mix of fun and sadness. I like having a woman around but it has to be the right woman. I did not want to have a woman around just to avoid being alone.
I'm outspoken, silly, sometimes crude and obnoxious so it takes a strong and tolerant person to deal with me. I played the dance club angle for several years. Women like a guy that can dance well. I can't dance well but I can talk to women and fake dancing well....It was fun but I did get tired of seeing the same faces week after week.
My sister started an online personal ad for me in late 1998. Through that, I met a bunch of nice women. Most were overweight, most had kids. There were some that sent pictures of when they were THIN, then showed up for a date looking like they ate the person in the picture. It was almost bad enough to request a current picture with the newspaper of the day in the photo.
I met my current wife online in 1999. We have been together since. Great lady!

Dam, its vanilla ice

Nah, more Top Gun era Val Kilmer.

Im just watching to see whos gonna hook up with who here.

I'm pretty sure there's a Reddit group for incels.

If you have nothing to offer, then why would anyone want to be with you?

Just move to Nevada and rent an escort 1x/week.

A lot cheaper than a GF or wife.

Mmm, well....maybe. Have you gotten your doctor's bill yet?

I'm no catch myself. I realize that. That's usually the biggest hurdle for me is that when I DO meet somebody who's not a rhinoceros with it's own cricket team and she has hobbies and talent and friends and gainful employment.... well then that means I'm probably going to be the anchor holding her back; and I could never do that to somebody.

My brother partakes in working girls. You'd be shocked/amazed at how many of them do it for legitimate reasons. So, it's in their best interests to have decent clientele and keep themselves clean. Dare I say some of them take better care of themselves than the average woman out there.

They're happy because they have a repeat customer who offers a bit of fun and doesn't hurt them, You're happy because she'll knock your socks off and you don't have to fork out for breakfast.

I've also had a friend who dated a stripper for a while. Funny thing about that was she was CUTE, had a rockin' bod, great personality, above-average intelligence and damn near everything a fellow looked for in a woman. The only reason they split up was because he wanted her to settle down and have babies, and she was unwilling to give up her amazing body and the income it generated.

EXACTLY

Probably the worst thing about being single is going to weddings, racers banquets, etc.

Doc and MyPillow guy have been seen in some dark candle lit restaurant booths together.

very COOL Greg

I am married to a GREAT wife 16 years, she is my 2nd attempt, if I want or need something I just tell her, Hey I need something for the Charger it will be here in a couple of days , she ask, what ya gettin , I tell her what it is & she says COOL !!!! , I am the disabled house husband, MOST woman would have left in 2011 when I was diagnosed with Kidney cancer & Multiple Sclerosis . she works her ASS off, I am VERY lucky,don't know what I would do without her,, prior to HER my 1st wife & dating was a Nuclear catastrophe Old picture

Now larryLOVEit.... yur confusing me with some of Mikey’s minions from Puttsylvania

But YOU cruising the outskirts of I 95 ......

... and “THE GIRLS” .... on the stroll... do you have a foolproof way of checking fur bulges ?

I use the excuse "It's bad luck to show up to a wedding flying solo. *IF* I can get a date, then I'll show." Generally speaking, you get a pass using that one. Also, my track record is 1 in 7 weddings so far. What's that refer to? Of the 7 weddings I've been invited to (and didn't attend) only ONE of them so far has ended in divorce. I brag all the other ones are staying together because I didn't go to their wedding!

DREADING attending an event for doubles ... being single ?

A bud up in micccccchigan is somewhat of a social butterfly attending stuff like this often .....

Many peeps are JEALOUS of his chosen life!

aMsea ... you have some interesting chit !

Tough finding a good woman. Like a couple, I was single in the 90's. What I found was that once you turned about 27 most of the good ones were married and all that was left were the head cases. And there were a lot of head cases. At 32 I married my wife who was 25. Perhaps due to the age difference and experience, she didn't even think of running me. We just get along fine. Honestly I think there must be some hormonal thing because the number of head cases out there is unreal. Oh, and the only time I ever tried being super nice and attentive, I was mowed right over. Heck, the wife or I don't ask each other for permission to do anything. Perhaps we just know what would push things too far.

How about chicks with ESAs ?