As I understand it, you haven't purchased the heads yet. You also probably don't have a real number for deck height and connecting rod length. If you do, that makes it easier.
Another thing to consider is block deck orientation. Mopar decks are notorious for being off spec and that includes both height and rotation. It is not unusual for the deck to be tilted front-to-back or side-to-side.
Some of this can be discovered by mocking up the block with a single piston/rod combo and measuring clearance from top of piston to the deck at the four outside cylinders.
Do you have the machinery to correct the deck surfaces?
Either way, the minimum clearance or distance is the one to use in calculations.
Now on to pistons and heads. I would strongly suggest that after you get the deck height problem solved, you calculate how much needs to be taken off the top of the piston to get it to zero deck. This won't be more than a few ccs of aluminum, and if done consistently will reduce the amount of each piston weight by just a few grams. Then read a couple explanations of "overbalancing" and realize that the tiny amount of weight you removed from the piston tops will NOT affect the engine balance or performance.
Then buy the regular Edelbrock closed chamber heads. Set the squish with the gasket. 1mm (0.040") is a very good number, some run as close as 0.032. Ideally you would run out of clearance slightly above redline. Bottom line is you don't want the pistons running into the head, but anything short of that is OK.
www.theoldone.com has some interesting reading on squish. Here's a quote from Larry Widmer (Endyn) regarding quench clearances,
"Every engine I've been associated with made the most power had deck clearances so tight that the piston quench pads just kissed the corresponding areas on the head at peak RPM levels...."
Doing a little more reading it appears your guessed 0.030' would be in the OK area as long as piston-to-bore clearances were smaller, limiting piston rock. But I still think milling the tops of the pistons to get true zero deck is the way to go.
R.