Damn it Greg….. you know this forum is “race” topics only. We have strict protocols to keep the overall forum on point and not to “dilute “ it with personal stuff….. yeah, whatever. When you’ve been a part of a community so long, you become “family” so to speak, and you’re hurt becomes ours. I’m oh so glad you had the experience of a love so enduring it became one. I’m hopefully midterm in such a comparative relationship. Our world can be split at a moments notice. I’m glad you’ve lived such an experience. Sandy sounds like she was an incredible 1/2 to you. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family in this difficult time….