just an update to the problem, the J2 drk blue wire with tracer from ignition 1 that goes from the bulkhead in the engine compartment to the voltage regulator had a bad connection.
my good friend VCODE Bob came to my rescue with his little batman kit and saved the day. he has more knowledge than you want to know and a terrific guy.
he'll chime in and give the details but for now its fixed and running perfectly.