Wow Steve!
The level tone of your post tells me you've processed the initial shock - Man, that's gotta be a huge bitter pill to swallow.. But it shows you've got a strong mind, a good attitude and I wish you and yours the best going forward through the treatment and whatnot.

It can suck not having someone to talk with (not telling colleagues yet, etc.). So I'm sure everyone agrees that we are here for you anytime.
Best to you,
-Art

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