ROL gaskets are high quality, no problem with them.
The flimsy steel gaskets were stock on Mopars for years, including all of the "musclecar years".
Mopar bigblocks do not have head gasket sealing problems even at 12:1 or higher.
Head studs make it $%^& difficult to remove the heads with the engine in the car, especially if one has power brakes.
If you do go with studs, be sure to read the tech info on how to install them.
A good set of head bolts, like ARP, is totally sufficient for a 10.5:1 440. Again, follow the directions on tightening the bolts.
I question your assertion that the block deck was machined because it was a fresh rebuild. If you asked for it or paid for it, that's one thing. But, it is incorrect to assume that every rebuild includes decking the block. In my experience this was something extra and adds a couple of hundred dollars to the bill.
You'll spend your money as you see fit. I have no problem with that. Personal freedom and responsibility are the backbone of our way of life.
R.