update, i forgot how much trouble it is to put motor mounts in a car,
PIA, i got up at about 6:30am this morning, i got thru about 2pm, everything turned out great, i do not know if it is in my head or not, i think i can feel the solid mount alittle, however not too bad, and i love the idea of not having to replace it forever!
i bought 2 motor mounts for 27.95 from summit, so now i have enough to do another car, thanks for all the input, hope this info may help somebody else