So i went and did some checking with the shop who is doing the ceramic coating on my headers. He said do not use the copper gaskets as they are prone to leaking unless you anneal them first. He suggested the Remflex gaskets. He also said to not over tighten them and keep them from 7 to 10 lbs of pressure.

I am going that route so i guess the copper gaskets are back on the shelf!! Or maybe a Moparts secret Santa gift....