Any choice you make will not prematurely wear out anything. Nobody here is glazing any brake in what you are talking about, seeing a stop ahead and coasting with a bit of braking involved.

But since you asked. For the ultimate friendly to the car stop. Neutral right away, coast and brake.

Decelerating a carbureted car produces a super rich condition. A closed throttle blade under engine braking has very little air to bleed in and the extra vacuum pulls hard on the transfer slots.