I recently bought a used 1999 Ram 1500 that has what appears to be the facotry towing package. It has the transmission cooler, Class IV hitch and the sideways mounted 7 pin connector that is welded. However I can not find the connector for the trailer brake controller under the dash. There is a white female connector mounted to the drivers side of the wiring harness, but it is much to small for the male connector to trailer brake controller. Local Dodge "parts experts" are all younger than me and can't find info on a 15 y/o truck. Anyone have any suggestions. Thanks for help.