this connector is for the transmission, and the OP was looking for a connector to hook up to trailer lights from the truck real lighting harness.
I have found the connectors I need. For those interested and for anyone in the future the connectors are the following T25A10, G62B10
what brand are those numbers from ?
A very deep search on connector experts which lead me to a different site (don't recall the name) which lead me to a less expensive site to purchase both connectors for less than the other sites wanted for 1 of the 2.