Ok , so Ive searched the entire internet and watched 284 youtube videos and have no solution.

2004 Ram 1500 . Alarm goes off intermittently when opening driver door with key.
I have the gray Ram key , no sort of fob or alarm buttons / unlock ( i will post a pic )

If i stick key in and turn ign = alarm stops. Its random though and driving me insane. About to cut the horn wires.

How can i disable the alarm ?????? I dont need or want it . I thought there would be a relay or fuse to pull , but is there ????