Just so happens that when I was dealing with the fuel pump issue
I picked up a fuel pump relay from Napa. Wouldn't plug in, the indexs
weren't right, but it did plug into the ASD. Pulled it out of the box and swapped out, problem solved for now.
I found the wire (grey/orange trace) that goes from the
relay to the coil, so if it happens again, I can run a jumper
to ge me back home.

Appreciate the responses !