well I feel like a retard now....
I just noticed the plug looked wet because I must have put a little too much anti seeze on the threads of the plug. When I took the plug out this eveining I wiped my finger across the threads and it was grey.
And the tip of the plug isn't wet, just the threads and around the base where the threads are. I took a q-tip and cleaned up the threads on the plug and the threads in the spark plug hole.