Thanks for the feedback - I used the TF OD Jr basic kit. When the solenoids failed (or what I thought was the solenoids) it lost all gears forward and reverse. It was shifting fine before that. I put the kit in while I had the VB out to replace all the solenoids and cleaned the VB as well.
Maybe the unit is on its way out or the line pressure adjustment is not right. I followed the instructions and replaced the single spring with the double spring for that step and the adjustment for the seat was just flush against the bracket. I suspect that there may be something more wrong here.