Wondering if you all could give me some pointers on wiring a relay into my headlights on my '96 Dakota. I've pretty much done without driving at night for the past 4 months, hoping I'd get money to have them fixed but it's not happening, I've done some wiring but would like to just fix it and be done.

After 10-15 minutes they may or may not begin flicking, either they'll stay get dicey again or just go out all together, I figure it's overheating, New switch and Multi-function. also one of the connectors on the headlight switch pigtail was melted.

I'm reading of guys taking a 30 amp, hooking it to the melted connector and running it to battery. Thats all I have picked up on and wondering if anyone could detail it some for me. I'd appreciate it!