Update....

Ok, I finally touched base with Firm Feel and I'm going that route.

They have my Steering Gear and Matt (at Firm Feel) says they are going to fix me up.

He also suggested changing my upper control arms to tubular, to give me the extra caster that I need.

Finally, I found a guy that will stiffen my lower control arms.

I'm hoping that these changes will give me the confidence that I need (in my front end).

Thanks guys!