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Steal my wife ..ok, I'm taking you to court #2992636
12/06/21 05:39 PM
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https://www.keloland.com/news/investigates/sued-for-seduction/


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SIOUX FALLS, S.D.D (KELO) — Affairs are not uncommon, and they often break up marriages. However, in South Dakota, the jilted spouse has a legal recourse only available in six states. They can sue the third party, who they believe interfered with their marriage, for alienation of affection.

It’s a law whose roots date back centuries to when a wife was considered her husband’s property. KELOLAND Investigates has uncovered a new case of alienation of affection against a Sioux Falls businessman who has been sued for the very same thing in the past. Plus, we take an in-depth look at how alienation of affection cases have played out and why some say the law needs to go.



Gery Baar was married to his wife, Denise, for 17 years. But there were a few bumps in the road.

“Actually, Jud Pins and my wife, Denise, started an affair in 1996 and I uncovered it then and Denise and I reconciled. And for three years, our marriage was better than ever,” Baar said.


Gary and Denise Baar during their marriage
However, Baar claims Denise started seeing Pins again.

“I confronted her and she admitted it. One surprising thing that she said to me is that they were talking about marriage. So, Pins was providing a path for her away from my marriage,” Baar said.

Gery and Denise Baar divorced and Gery sued Pins for alienation of affection.

“I might still be married, and my family might still be together if it weren’t for Jud Pins. Part of the reasoning for doing it with no-fault divorce; you know my wife cheated on me, but with no-fault divorce, she was still entitled to 50 percent of whatever property and investments and wealth I had and so an alienation of affection lawsuit is the only recourse to correct that unfairness,” Baar said.

Gery settled his alienation of affection case with Pins out of court and can’t disclose the terms. Pins eventually married Denise.


“I felt I had a very strong case–lots of evidence. But at the time, my children weren’t aware of all that had transpired, and I was protecting my kids from that. I did not want it to go to trial. I wanted to spare them from all that public humiliation,” Baar said.

The legal balm for broken hearts

and then

Pins sued insurance company to cover settlement


Judson Pins
Jud Pins then sued his insurance company, State Farm, for refusing to cover the claim. The U.S. Court of Appeals for the 8th Circuit reversed the lower court’s decision that State Farm must pay the claim, saying that any loss to an injured spouse in an alienation of affection was expected or intended and could not be considered a covered accident under Pin’s policy.




and then again .. he does it again , lol


New alienation of affection lawsuit filed against Pins

Christenson is now representing a different man who is also suing Jud Pins for alienation of affection. Pete Sanchez filed a civil case against Pins, accusing him of interfering with his marriage to Adeline Sanchez. According to the lawsuit, Sanchez claims that Pins, “began a pattern of communicating with Ms. Sanchez on a nearly daily basis and began to make sexual advances. According to documents filed in civil court, Sanchez claims Pins made 130 phone calls to Ms. Sanchez and they traveled together on a business trip sponsored by Pins’ company.


The lips of fools bring them strife, and their mouths invite a beating.Proverbs 18:6
Re: Steal my wife ..ok, I'm taking you to court [Re: bigdad] #2992642
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In Tejas, if you steal someone's wife, the thief deserves the compensation for future misery inflicted by said wife. up

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It seems like it would be something available in more than 6 states.

When you consider that most marriages are two income arrangements nowadays, messing up someones marriage is not much different than an act affecting their income.

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I'm left wondering why the guy hasn't had his ass kicked !

The laws that just award 50% regardless of merit can really suck - figuratively & literally - depending on circumstances.

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ud Pins then sued his insurance company, State Farm, for refusing to cover the claim. The U.S. Court of Appeals for the 8th Circuit reversed the lower court’s decision that State Farm must pay the claim, saying that any loss to an injured spouse in an alienation of affection was expected or intended and could not be considered a covered accident under Pin’s policy.


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How's the old joke go?

Guy runs from the cops, finally gets caught, they ask him why he ran. "My ex-wife ran off with a cop. I thought you were trying to bring her back..."

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Originally Posted by nuthinbutmopar
How's the old joke go?

Guy runs from the cops, finally gets caught, they ask him why he ran. "My ex-wife ran off with a cop. I thought you were trying to bring her back..."


That's not an old joke....that is a trues story! panic


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Re: Steal my wife ..ok, I'm taking you to court [Re: 67vertman] #2992737
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I had an uncle that was a ladies man and had something they liked, I won't go into details about that. He would cover anything that would stand still long enough. Anyway, he was messing with a married woman in the next county and her husband sued him for "loss of affection". The judge threw it out. LOL

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Reminds me of the verse in the Bobby Bare song "The Winner:"

Now this broken back was the dyin' act of a handsome Harry Clay
That sticky Cincinnati night I stole his wife away
But that woman she gets uglier and she gets meaner every day
But I got her boy that's what makes me a winner

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Reminds me : many years ago I was working as a mechanics assistant at a rock quarry, one of the mechanics there was a real character one morning he gets out of his truck wearing only his under wear ... you guessed it .. he was messing with a married woman.. the husband came home and out the window he went sans his clothes.. so he just came to work that way... true story!

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First time I heard of alienation of affection law was in North Carolina in the middle 1990s
when the married grand daughter of Albert Einstein
had an affair with a married professor.

The Einstein grand daughter ended up moving to Canada.

The professor also moved away.

Sadly, both were extremely, extremely, good public speakers
who could “wow you” with the ideas they were expressing.

Albert Einstein had numerous affairs, including with a known spy.

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Still very much part of the UCMJ in the armed forces.

Discharge, forfeiture of pay, and confinement up to a year are on the table if caught.

Some has to do with additional benefits that the member receives because they have a dependent...


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Originally Posted by 67vertman
If you steal my wife, I have a no return policy! wave


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Originally Posted by topside
I'm left wondering why the guy hasn't had his ass kicked !

The laws that just award 50% regardless of merit can really suck - figuratively & literally - depending on circumstances.



Why does no one blame the woman? It takes two.
My first shot would be the woman if I were inclined to kill someone over something as stupid as this.


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