Well the starter is good. I replaced the relay, the battery post is connected, the solenoid wired, the ignition wire is wire to the bottom left post. The bottom right says ground on some diagrams and "neutral safety switch" on others. My neutral safety switch has a plug with three wires that lead to the bulk head connector. There is no single wire that leads from the trans to the relay. Is that correct?

Other than that, the motor still won't even turn. It doesn't even click when i turn the key. Thats why i suspected the relay. I am outta ideas.