whats the alternative? does FelPro make a oversize gasket?
More than one, but you don't mention CR or deck height or anything else that would help narrow down the choice.
1. The "standard" Permatorque replacementis supposed to have a compressed thickness of approx. .040" and is pretty close to a 4.50" ID. It's not a high-CR type of gasket, though, and most recommendations I hear say not to use much over 10:1 w/ it.
2. The "marine" gasket is the same dimensions as the standard Permatorque, only the construction is supposed to be like the 1009, with the exception of not having the wire reinforcement in the fire ring.
3. There are some dedicated performance gaskets similar to the 1009, only with 4.50" bores. However, those also have compressed thickness of approx. .050", which can jack-up your quench if your pistons are at zero deck height and you're trying to keep it tight.
If you look for something other than Fel-Pro, IMO avoid the Mr. Gasket MLS stuff.