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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: SattyNoCar] #2510557
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I'm reasonably sure you still have feelings for her and her well being. And you should, you did spend a good portion of your lives together.

BUT,! Now it's over. Don't feel sorry for her, she got what she wanted. Sorry she now has to make a car payment and rent or house payment. But that's what she wanted.

Do Not feel sorry, don't help her. Sounds like she already has a roommate lined up to help pay the bills. If not maybe she should have stayed with the sure thing.

She made her bed, doesn't mean you have to lay in ur


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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: Kern Dog] #2510572
06/19/18 11:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Frankenduster
240 pounds????


I'm a C-body kinda guy..... whistling

This was something that played into the divorce. No, I never told her she HAD to lose weight 'or else' or anything remotely close to that.....her Doctor did that about 5 yrs ago.

She had the surgery, did GREAT for almost two years, then started spiraling out of control again. First it was eating crap again, then it was starting smoking again (which she claimed she hadn't smoked since H.S.). As of this writing, she's almost a chain smoker.

I have asthma. See the problem here?

So, she's put back on a majority of the weight, and she smokes on top of it too now. I'm more than willing to lend a help hand, a word of encouragement, but, it's gotta be up to YOU to actually do something.

Plus, I'm not 100% sure, but it looks like she's starting to drink too.

I'm not saying all this to imply I'm perfect, I'm not, I know it. I'm not in denial about it. But, when one person is constantly trying to better themselves, no matter how small, and the other has basically given up.....you have to draw the line somewhere.

Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: SattyNoCar] #2510610
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So much better to just be single anyway. Who can stand women anymore, and the games they play. Forget it. No thanks.

Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: StukaJU87] #2510643
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Originally Posted By StukaJU87
Rosie?


42-39-56

Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: SattyNoCar] #2510656
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Divorce is the screwin you get from the screwing you got . Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Don't dwell on the past, look for opportunity in you future. Good luck , you'll be OK

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it's ok to butt heads, just don't do it with a butthead
Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: SattyNoCar] #2510672
06/20/18 04:31 AM
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Divorce is hard no matter how smooth things go.
My ex is by far the nastiest person I ever known, but a after every thing was said and done I felt sorry for her. That lasted until the fist time I talked to her after court. Nasty was back.


Have a great day
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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: Morty426] #2510675
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Originally Posted By Morty426
Originally Posted By StukaJU87
Rosie?


42-39-56


You could say she got it all


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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: StukaJU87] #2510747
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Originally Posted By StukaJU87
Originally Posted By Morty426
Originally Posted By StukaJU87
Rosie?


42-39-56


You could say she got it all


laugh2

Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: Morty426] #2784427
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TTT

Let’s see what Romeo or Sad Sack checks in now ! popcorn

Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: slantzilla] #2784667
06/12/20 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted by slantzilla
Get yourself a great lawyer NOW! Not tomorrow, not next week. Find the most cut throat one you can, preferably a woman.

Trust me on this........

I second this.....


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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: dIc dOc Deity !] #2784699
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Originally Posted by Doc Fiberglass..
TTT

Let’s see what Romeo or Sad Sack checks in now ! popcorn


While I don't care either way, how sad is it that someone has to pull up a post from 2 yrs ago to feel better about them selves? shruggy


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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: SattyNoCar] #2784703
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Come on sad sack Satty7 ! ... tsk

I’m ALL ALONE meself .. and I did not diss you at all ...

Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: SattyNoCar] #2784709
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What’s with the TUDE ?

You seemed DELIGHTED to get outa there !

Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: coronetgirl] #2784745
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Originally Posted by coronetgirl
You were with your sick mother and your wife was not alone. She needs to put her big girl panties on and get over it.


iagree up

Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: dIc dOc Deity !] #2784757
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Originally Posted by Doc Fiberglass..
What’s with the TUDE ?

You seemed DELIGHTED to get outa there !


My bad....think I have a touch of heat exhaustion from work, feeling a bit cranky........ help

Not to go off topic but, do all ProMaster vans suck as bad as the one we have at work? flame


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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: SattyNoCar] #2784776
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We are good ... up ... it was brutal today here too.

Well I’m certainly no Romeo .., more like a Happy Sack .... NOT SAD at all.

Anyone ever had dealings with someone who is an ABSOLUTE FLAMING ALCOHOLIC ?

One who drinks HAND SANITIZER ? ... look it up !!!

Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: dIc dOc Deity !] #2784787
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Anyone ever had dealings with someone who is an ABSOLUTE FLAMING ALCOHOLIC ?

One who drinks HAND SANITIZER ? ... look it up !!!


wave

Not to speak ill of the deceased, but, my step (STEP) Mom was. Don't know if she ever drank hand sanitizer, but she'd go on these rips where if it had alcohol in it (like vanilla extract for example), she'd drink it. An alcoholic, bipolar, person of Irish descent, is NOT a good combination. runaway

Came home to blood everywhere a few times........... eek


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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: SattyNoCar] #2784911
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I’ve compared notes with some other people and OH LORD ... lots of addiction issues out there !

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Me and myself are getting along fine, carry on.


STOP POTATO HATE!
Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic...UPDATE . [Re: Mr PotatoHead] #2785029
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Originally Posted by Mr. Potatohead
Me and myself are getting along fine, carry on.


Things gReAt with the Palmer twins ? whistling

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